Sombody actually asked me the other day if I was so mad that I wasn't the first one out of our "group of friends" to get married so I decided I was going to be the first to have a baby...yeah I could have kicked that bastard square in the nuts. I know it was prolly just a joke but good lord have some tact. It is weird being essentially the first one to go through this-although i would hope so most of my friends are guys...
I guess the thing that blows my mind is a lot of people whether they want to admit it or not still view this whole pregnancy thing as being the girls fault. Umm yeah it did take both of us just in case some of you slept through sex ed.
It's just weird because Adam will come home with these stories of people that he has run into that know and will say "Dude, what were you thinking". but when they see me they say, "Oh how cute how great how are you feeling" HYE HEY HEY HEY HEY!!! Adam's plans weren't the only ones who got dicked over here. I'm not saying this is a tragedy either-believe me things could be a whole crap-load worse-plus so far its a healthy pregnancy, and luckily I have like the best family in the whole world, who have been incredible and nothing less then like 100% supportive, but you know I was going to go to Germany this month and France and stay with Andrew, since I had all this money that I was going to use for the wedding. And there was graduate school, etc etc etc. oh look not anymore, but I guess people just don't see it that way.
Since I am not really showing yet, a lot of people have not considered them baby experts yet, which is good because I don't know how well I will handle that actually.
I know a lot of girls who say that the thing that will really bother them will be when people want to come up and touch their belly, I dont know I don't think it will bother me too much, I guess because I can't imagine that many people will actually have the balls to come and fondle me in public. Maybe I could just grope them back